I'm most likely seeing my best friend on Saturday whom I haven't seen since college started up again. All this time I've been planning up ways on how I can come out to her. I thought of doing it over IM one day, to even an email...but with emails I'm not sure if she really reads them. Now I have written a letter to her, explaining my feelings and everything that I'm going through. I just don't know if I can actually hand it to her. And if I do actually build up the nerve to do so I have no idea when the right time will be. Should I do it after the visit, so I don't see her reaction. Or should I just give it to her while I'm still there so we can talk about it even further. I'm afraid that if I do give it to her while I'm still there I'll get really nervous and perhaps choked up. I'm not good with talking to people about my feelings, I always wear masks and I hate it. I want to be more open with her, but it's not in my nature. So I guess what I'm asking for is what should I do? Is there an appropriate time to give her the letter or should I just go by feel?
Have you considered e-mailing her the letter, so it has time to sink in? Then you won't have that elephant in the room to deal with. ...is this a Colorado-only thread? Lex
Haha woah, Colorado for the win~ But yeah I've been thinking about that too. I've decided that I don't want to do it while I'm still there. It'll just be way too stressful for me and it'll give her some time to think it over.
