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Am I Gay, Bi, Straight, or Something Else?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JustNeedToKnow, Feb 6, 2013.

  1. JustNeedToKnow

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    I am in my mid twenties and have always wondered if I am not completely straight since I was in my mid teens. I tried posting this before but somehow it didn't post, so I have to write this out all over again! Let me know what you guys think about my sexuality from this list of observations I have.

    First big point and possibly the biggest: Whenever I have a gay fantasy my dick feels different than the totality of all my other fantasies. A way to describe it is that it feel more "sensitive." It usually makes me able to climax much quicker. My gay fantasies are my best fantasies, but I think I like shemale fantasies better though.

    Whenever I think about a guy giving me head it is always much more intense than if I think about a girl giving me head.

    I have never done anything gay, I don't even care for looking at dicks in the locker room shower. At least not yet.

    I have had several girlfriends and when I had sex with them I lasted for a very long time and had to push myself very hard to climax. I did enjoy it very much though. All my gfs thought that I had a greater than average libido and wanted sex almost too much. I probably thought about guys 5% (not 50%) of the time, but when I did it got me to climax much quicker.

    I masturbate a lot and have always liked really kinky porn. I used to watch mostly straight porn but now gay/shemale porn gets me off much more intensely.

    I check out girls far more often than I check out guys.

    I prefer shemale porn over gay porn.

    Whenever I have tried to embrace the mental idea of being gay, it really makes my gay fantasies less enjoyable and I end up having to finish myself off thinking about straight sex.

    However, my first point is the thing I really wonder about. If my dick feels a lot more sensitive just with the idea of gay sex, maybe it is my true sexuality and just my heightened sexuality in general allows me to enjoy straight sex, but not as much?

    What do you guys think?
     
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    Give us more details about yourself.
     
  3. JustNeedToKnow

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    I am in my mid twenties and have always wondered if I am not completely straight since I was in my mid teens. I tried posting this before but somehow it didn't post, so I have to write this out all over again! Let me know what you guys think about my sexuality from this list of observations I have.

    First big point and possibly the biggest: Whenever I have a gay fantasy my dick feels different than the totality of all my other fantasies. A way to describe it is that it feel more "sensitive." It usually makes me able to climax much quicker. My gay fantasies are my best fantasies, but I think I like shemale fantasies better though.

    Whenever I think about a guy giving me head it is always much more intense than if I think about a girl giving me head.

    I have never done anything gay, I don't even care for looking at dicks in the locker room shower. At least not yet.

    I have had several girlfriends and when I had sex with them I lasted for a very long time and had to push myself very hard to climax. I did enjoy it very much though. All my gfs thought that I had a greater than average libido and wanted sex almost too much. I probably thought about guys 5% (not 50%) of the time, but when I did it got me to climax much quicker.

    I masturbate a lot and have always liked really kinky porn.

    I check out girls far more often than I check out guys.

    I prefer shemale porn over gay porn.

    Whenever I have tried to embrace the mental idea of being gay, it really makes my gay fantasies less enjoyable and I end up having to finish myself off thinking about straight sex.

    However, my first point is the thing I really wonder about. If my dick feels a lot more sensitive just with the idea of gay sex, maybe it is my true sexuality and just my heightened sexuality in general allows me to enjoy straight sex, but not as much?
     
  4. AaronG

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    I don't quite understand what you're trying to ask here. Are you asking if YOU are gay etc or if everyone else is?
     
  5. JustNeedToKnow

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    I keep posting my story but it says it needs to be approved by a moderator. I didn't say anything offensive, but maybe it's TMI?

    ---------- Post added 6th Feb 2013 at 06:04 PM ----------

    I am in my mid twenties and have always wondered if I am not completely straight since I was in my mid teens. I tried posting this before but somehow it didn't post, so I have to write this out all over again! Let me know what you guys think about my sexuality from this list of observations I have.

    First big point and possibly the biggest: Whenever I have a gay fantasy my d*** feels different than the totality of all my other fantasies. A way to describe it is that it feel more "sensitive." It usually makes me able to climax much quicker. My gay fantasies are my best fantasies, but I think I like shemale fantasies better though.

    Whenever I think about a guy giving me h**d it is always much more intense than if I think about a girl giving me h**d.

    I have never done anything gay, I don't even care for looking at d***s in the locker room shower. At least not yet.

    I have had several girlfriends and when I had sex with them I lasted for a very long time and had to push myself very hard to climax. I did enjoy it very much though. All my gfs thought that I had a greater than average libido and wanted sex almost too much. I probably thought about guys 5% (not 50%) of the time, but when I did it got me to climax much quicker.

    I masturbate a lot and have always liked really kinky porn.

    I check out girls far more often than I check out guys.

    I prefer shemale porn over gay porn.

    Whenever I have tried to embrace the mental idea of being gay, it really makes my gay fantasies less enjoyable and I end up having to finish myself off thinking about straight sex.

    However, my first point is the thing I really wonder about. If my d*** feels a lot more sensitive just with the idea of gay sex, maybe it is my true sexuality and just my heightened sexuality in general allows me to enjoy straight sex, but not as much?
     
  6. Filip

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    I've approved it!

    It seems the forum software is a bit cautious sometimes with long posts by new members, and restricts them until a mod can look over it and determine whether it's spam.. That's computers for you. Much artificial, little intelligence :wink: