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Can't get over this idiot.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JoshXD, Feb 7, 2013.

  1. JoshXD

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    So, i've like this guy, for like, way too long. Three years? That's disgusting.

    Anyway, any tips for stop liking someone? I don't want to hate him because that's not fair and he didn't do anything wrong.

    I've talked about him in a previous thread [x]

    We haven't talked in a month, I've tried to avoid him, but then he inboxed me on facebook, and all the feelings returned. I find these feelings annoying, and I don't like emotions.

    Also, we are in the same friendship group, so I will see him at parties and other social events. There is no escape.

    Thanks in advance!
     
  2. Lexington

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    You're gay. You're out to everyone. So assumedly he knows you're gay. Can you just tell him "I'm finding myself getting some feeling for you that I know aren't returned, so I think it's best if I put some space between us for a bit"? Then do it.

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  3. JoshXD

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    That'll work. Telling him, why didn't I think of that?

    Thanks :slight_smile:!