Trying to Check Out Guys? *Bargaining stage*

Can't help but admit yes.. It didn't last long though, I know (and I'm sure I knew then) that I'm gay and there is nothing I can do to change that.

I can think of plenty of my own reasons, but why do you want to turn straight?

 

Yes, I've done this. I can see a guy I find attractive, but I have no desire to have sexual thoughts about them. Then once I see the "schlong" (lmfao) I'm like, "Nope" and close the page. XD

Why do you want to turn straight? You're awesome just the way you are. D:

 

Yeah, when I was much younger I used to Google females or straight porn, but I didn't put much effort into it since it didn't hold my interest for more than a split second and was a turn off, haha. I knew what I really liked was guys all along. Although I still tried to say I wasn't gay. :eusa_doh:

 

There was a friend of mine who tried to convince me I was bi like them, we shared similar backgrounds. I thought there was some merit in this.

So, I looked at pictures of girls cosplaying as guys. :lol:

Safe to say it didn't work. but it brought me and that friend closer together, understand one another. It was worth it.

 

I'm guilty of it as well, but I'm trying to stop it. It's just so much easier being straight.

 

You're gay. There is a lot of value in that. Also, it doesn't help that what's being sold as "hot guys" look hideous.

 

Yes I've tried this. I watched Magic Mike and tried to convince myself I was attracted to Channing Tatum. It didn't work. Glad I didn't look on google images though :roflmao:

 

Cosplay is different.

I find some androgynous women attractive, and this YouTuber twinfools has to be one of the cutest ftm guys around! :icon_redf

 

I know the feeling. But I don't think you should ever marry someone for convenience. Do it because you want to. This is your life and you need to do what makes you happy. I don't know much about you, but seeing the way you act on the forums... it's awesome. You shouldn't want to change that. D:
I agree, it is a lot harder finding dates, but when you finally find that special person, you'll realize that the wait was so worth it. Just be yourself! (*hug*)

 

All I have to say about that is never go on [sites that shouldn't be mentioned on EC, the names of which were removed by staff.]! Too many over weight old men with no clothes :eek:

 

^^maybe it's because you picked Channing Tatum. :lol: I don't find him to be terribly attractive.

I found a Playboy laying next to the road once. This was in middle school when I guess I was going through the "confused" state. I haven't tried to look at straight porn in many years - I've come to decide that it just does nothing for me.

 

I'll admit I looked into pictures of both men and women even though I'm not interested into them as I'm not turned on, but I love porn videos of a man and a woman in it only because I'm imagining myself as the guy or sometimes girl. It's the idea that turns me on, but doing it, nah forget it. Tried video yet? Warning though, porn sites are not exactly always pleasing.

 

Same here. I'm so lonely when it comes to having a romantic relationship. I don't have a LGBTQ center nearby, except for a gay men's wine tasting club, rofl. I'm honestly thinking about just moving out of state and trying some place new, because Alabama is definitely not the best place to find a date for myself. XD

 

Whew! I feel so much better knowing that I'm not alone in this. I'm so impatient though, I don't want to wait for the right person. I hate being alone