I've gotten some pretty big signs that my friend may be curious. Tomorrow were going out of town for a week and it will be just me and him in a hotel room. I want to make a move on him, but I don't know how to do it without him getting weirded out and it ruining our trip... any thoughts?
yeah be careful, if it goes wrong it could make the rest of the holiday very uncomfortable to say the least. Have you thought about simply telling him you are gay? That might be a good start, get his reaction and see if he says anything.
I think I will probably get a lot of flack for saying something along the lines of what I'm going to say, but it's the kind of "advice" (if you could call it that) that I would have wanted in many situations. There was one guy who I would still kill to have done something with, and I regret it all the time! If, say, you do want to do something with him, then there are definitely things you can do to maximise your chances. Things that would turn him on, like leaving the door slightly open while you're in the shower. Or accidentally dropping your towel while you're drying off. Or spending a lot of time in your underwear around the room and bending down in front of him and stuff. Sounds really silly, but all this stuff definitely works; especially if he's curious. You could also try getting a boner in your underwear and make it obvious. He'll probably comment, and you can just apologise and say you're really horny or something. That will definitely start his heart racing. You could always try the jokey stuff like slapping his ass if you see him bending down, and then bending down at a later moment and leaving him do the same to you. Things tend to escalate from there. Another option is to flip to the porn channel on the TV in the hotel room (although you'll probably have to pay for view), and then you just act normal and take out your dick — LOL — and start playing around. If he's curious, he'll probably do the same. When you're both extremely horny in this situation, it's not a huge step to casually roll over and start giving him a blowjob or something! Another one is the getting him drunk option, but I think this is a really bad one, because either one of you can deny it and pretend that you don't remember. But if you want a surefire way of experimenting with him, then this is the one. Finally, if he's curious and you really, totally, badly have to do something with him, then I wouldn't advise coming out as gay to him. If he's just curious, he may not even have confronted the thought that he might be gay, and doing so will probably cause him to freak out a bit. But playing devil's advocate here: what would you rather? Experimenting with him and having the fun of playing around with him and having him freak out about his sexuality or, telling him you're gay and want do something with him and having him freak out to the same extent about you and himself? One of them involves sex, and it's probably not the grown-up advice I should be giving, but I know which one I would choose. I totally agree that my suggestions are not the greatest if you're considering long-term goals, but again, we're talking about the way to maximise the chances that you'll get to have some fun with him. Just make sure that whatever you do isn't one-sided. This is a recipe for disaster. You have to make a move, and then you have to let him make a similar kind of move. It doesn't have to be as big as the move you make, but it's important that it's not all coming from you. If you're totally dead-set on a relationship with him, and you do think he's most likely gay and not just experimenting, there are definitely better ways to go about it.
