Okay so I like this guy, his name is Ra for now. So Ra is this awesome guy I have a crush on. He knows I'm asexual panromantic because I just told him. But at that same time I was going to tell him that I am a transman. But something in my mind told me not to. So I stayed silent. But now Ra questions me about it everyday we are alone. The issue I have is that if I tell him, he won't like me. I want to wait until I KNOW he likes me before I tell him, because hes not gay/bi/pan and I don't want to smother his crush for me if there is one. Help?
If he's asking you about it, I think you should probably tell him. What good is it anyway, if his feelings for you are based on something that isn't true? Why is he asking about it?
He's asking about it because I was gonna tell him and I never did. I might tell him, but I also don't want the word around and to get to my parents.
