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Being outed by brother ffs!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by tryhtwfr, Feb 17, 2013.

  1. tryhtwfr

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    Well over the last few days, I've been downloading Glee and my brother complained to my mum just now saying oh he's downloading a girls show that only girls watch and its slowing down my internet. My mum not being worried was like ok so and stuff even though she is totally anti-gay and he said "he is so feminine, I swear to God mum its so weird" when I'm not even feminine, its just the stuff I'm into and it just killed me really. I closed the door a bit to hint I never heard anything but he suspects something and him finding gay porn on my phone twice a year ago, I don't know what to think. On top of that, we haven't talked for years because his girlfriend has ruined my family relationship especially with him.

    What do I do? I'm getting back the feelings I had when there was a rumour going around that I was gay and the loooooong time it took to remove that label given to me was so long and hard! I'm so annoyed right now, how do I stop making him think that or even show it? FFS!:bang:
     
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    Personally, i don't think you can truly hide who you are..and be happy..just be yourself..have a heart to heart with him and tell him to lay off you..plenty of guys like glee.

    If you avoid him..and just stay out of his way that is another way..but id still confront him and tlk to him..you never know he may lay off of you if you ask..
     
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    I wish my brother outed me. Life would have been so much better.