Does anyone else feel this way? I don't want just SEX; I want a relationship. I've read some stories and books about homosexual couples, and they end up having sex on maybe the third date.?! There is a boy in my class who has sex with boys on the second date... I'm just wondering if there is anyone that feels this way? I understand that sex is an important part of a relationship, but are these feelings of asexuality? O_O Or celibacy? Whatever the word is. I know that I want to have sex, but it's only to please my partner... I'm not sure how I feel. Help me figure this out !!
There's nothing wrong with wanting an actual relationship, over just solely sex. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? That can, sort of, determine whether it's normal or not for you to consider having sex on a second or third date. I sometimes feel that way too, and have gotten screwed over by many guys online because of it. I would want a friend to talk to, maybe eventually more, and all they would want is just pictures of me. I understand it completely. I wouldn't necessarily say that you're asexual, but I'm not really great at 'diagnosing' a person's sexuality. Good luck!
Sounds like you have different priorities. Your main focus in a relationship doesn't seem to be sex, it seems like you want to become seriously attracted to someone before you even consider sex with them. There's nothing wrong with that at all.
Seventeen. >_< I know most of the normal seventeen year olds I know of are sex-driving machines, though. I am one of the odd ones out of the bunch, I guess.
I know I'm a twenty-something girl not a teenage guy but I'd never want sex with someone I didn't have an emotional connection with. Even if they're super hot, lol. We'd have to be friends first.
I'm like that, although I haven't had sex (probably because of that, I guess), but it applies to everything else related to getting physically intimate with someone. I'd have to at least be friends with the person, although that doesn't always happen...
Yes. But, l don't believe that giving it up early will ruin a true emotional connection. lt's either there or it isn't, l'm not going to think of someone as an uncommitted slut for going for it on the second date xD
