feeling ashamed.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by MerBear, Feb 19, 2013.

  1. MerBear

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    okay so today i was talking with my ex boyfriend and my friend Bradley and we were talking about how David (Bradly's best friend) asked this girl (Jill) out and Thomas got upset because he was going to ask her and so he kept complaining and near the end , i was commenting about how Jill is really beautiful and agreeing that this girl Erica in our class has a nice body and she really does and so my ex boyfriend (Thomas) came over to me saying

    "Nobody cares if your bi or lesbian"

    and really made me wish i had never said anything.
    he doesn't know i'm not straight (not using a label for now) but he just keeps guessing but anyways

    after he said that , it made feel like one those girls in those schools who say they are lesbian or bi and really aren't

    his comment made me feel fake and not real....
    i feel as if i shouldn't say anything anymore and just act straight.....

    and i now wish i never came out to my friend because of that
     
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    EDIT: i have horrible memory and so i usually get what people say mixed up

    what i said was asking Bradley if i could know who her boyfriend was because he was like "your not going to smash anyone's , she has a boyfriend anyways" and i was like "well who's her boyfriend?"

    and thats when thomas came in and said "nobody cares if your bi or lesbian"
     
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    At least they weren't offended by it...? :confused:
     
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