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Where will out friendship go from this? *caution, may be vulgar*

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Alex19, Feb 20, 2013.

  1. Alex19

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    OK, so, I'll start at the beginning. on sunday, I hung out with a buddy of mine all day. he is straight, i, obviously, am not. well, as the night went on, we started joking around and eventually ended up wrestling a bit, which has happened before, nothing new there.

    but, a short time after that, we started talking and the conversation shifted to porn and me saying i had to leave so i could watch some. i was joking, and didnt think anything of it but when i did try to leave, he stopped me, still just playing around. me, being definitely physically weaker didnt bother to stop him because it would have been pointless so i stayed a little while longer. as such, i threatened saying that if he didnt let me go, id just masturbate there. he didnt believe me and i was about to expose myself to get him to let me go but chickened out and decided to wait it out instead. but then, he offered me his kindle fire and we started actually watching porn together (which we have done before, still nothing new) but then i started showing him some m on m on f porn which eventually led to us getting visibly hot and bothered (then switched over to porn that he was more into ). i, losing all inhibitions, grabbed a condom he had and started masturbating. he was surprised i was doing this (even though i saw him groping himself first) then next thing you know, he started doing it too.

    we both finished in time and went about going separate ways. we hung out again very briefly 2 days later (yesterday) and things are fine. we chatted shortly over text and he brought up our "weird sunday" which it was, and how it was odd for him, and thats it. now, my dilemma is that even though things seem fine, idk if anything bad can come of this. i had no intentions of having that happen, and neither did he i think, and im sure that hes fine, but i guess i just need some reassurance that out friendship can be secure. has anyone else had something like this happen? i actually told him that i viewed this as a bonding moment, which i meant, does anyone agree? help me pwease :icon_sad:
     
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    Two human beings be human. Where's the vulgar!!!?
     
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    I wish I had friends like that. We'd be inseparable.
     
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    LOL to the both of ya! wheres my advise? haha but for real tho, i wonder if itll happen again.. idk what to think! i did like it, but idk what he thinks
     
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    Ask him. People miss more oppuryunites by playing it "safe".

    Just say " I kinda liked that" and see what he says.

    Nothing ventured nothing gained.

    Stuck
     
  6. Alex19

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    youre right. i should ask. but i feel like its still too soon tho to bring it up...