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accidently came out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by flyinhernikes, Feb 20, 2013.

  1. im not out at work. (well only to 2 people)

    someone yesterday at work was talking to me and i didnt properly hear what the person said to me, but i thought they said 'oh what are you gunna do?' my reply 'oh i dunno.. what can i do?'

    then today i was talking to that person again and they said to me 'oh dont you think that guys hot' i just nervously laughed and smiled. now thinking about yesterday that person must of actually said to me, what dont you think so? (in regards to the new 'hot' guy) and i replied 'i dont know what can i do' :eusa_doh:

    i feel so awkward about the way i kinda came out lol because i didnt hear the person properly. not the fact that i may now be 'the weird quiet girl who doesnt know if the new guy is hot' :|

    i feel like i need to save myself somehow lol but idk what to do. it doesnt bother me if rumors might start because of a stupid mishearing lol but i just feel so.... awkward.
    does anyone have any suggestions lol?

    and sorry if this doesnt make much sense :lol:
     
  2. Parsley

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    I don't know if I heard that I would assume you were gay. It just sounds like responding to a misheard question. So if it makes you feel any better they probably just think you're awkward not gay. ;p
     
  3. Last Gentleman

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    The next time they say something, you can just stare for a second "thinking". And then say, "Sorry can you repeat that. I really should see an audiologist and get checked".