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How do i flirt with my crush?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Random Matt, Feb 21, 2013.

  1. Random Matt

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    Im really bad at flirting and would like if someone would give me advice or tell me what to do. Hes tall hot and cute.
     
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    ~Body language is key! Lean toward him if you can in the situation.
    ~Eye contact. Look him in the eye until it's slightly uncomfortable then shyly look away.
    ~Compliments. This one (and eye contact) is my signature move. LoL You have to be charming, but not cheesy charming. Just be a bit "overly friendly" and give him simple compliments often. Note: They must be geniune... don't compliment an outfit you find hideous!
    ~Avoid awkward silences when you can and keep the conversation light! You can get into deep conversations when you're both more invested in a friendship or relationship.

    Those are the main ones. :icon_bigg

    Happy boy hunting! :wink:
     
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    laugh at his jokes!
     
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    I was about to post this kind of thread!
     
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    Going off what myheartincheck posted...

    Trying to maintain more eye contact and smile at him. Maybe try being a bit playfully physical. Ruffle his hair, poke/tickle him. Sit next to him or just move closer to him.
     
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    Definitely more eye contact, as others have said.
     
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    Yeah I would also say to try maintain eye contact and smile, and then touching him, as it will show you really how he reacts to you : ) Usually people twitch a little and get a bit shaky when someone they like touches them : D at least I do XD
     
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    That. is. adorable. :grin:

    It would definitely show him that there's something going on, but then again, it's not exactly flirting either. Could you possibly get him to talk about what he likes? It could be anything, as long as you find out what makes him tick. The more you know, the better you can connect to him.

    I second the touching too. Very situation specific, but when used properly, it goes a long way.
     
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    Thank you to all great advice ill to my best.
     
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    Tease him gently, the trick is getting him to smile
     
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    That must be F&V's signature move :lol: I wouldnt recommend poking until a little further down the line. Although it may depend on your age as to whether it's an appropriate flirting tool.

    Make him feel good about himself; lean the conversation towards him and do your best to be genuinely interested. Everybody craves that little bit of interest from somebody about their own life just don't let it turn into an ego-stroking session.
     
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    I was tutoring my crush(he's a year younger) and i had a million excuses to touch him (he's super muscular) and make him look me straight in the eye (God bless Biology). Loved it when he got shy.
     
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    Your never too young or old to poke someone! :eusa_danc
     
  14. SmokeandMirrors

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    Actually I think there's a law to prevent poking over a certain age.....like 12 (!)