any advice on this would be great :)

If you read my last post, you would know that I'm currently crushing really hard on this friend of mine. The only problem is that I don't think he is straight but I don't know for sure. Well I want to take things a little further with him and here is what I had in mind.

Last weekend, we were supposed to watch a movie together but the company he had over stayed well into the night so we were both too tired to watch the movie. We plan to watch the movie at a later time next week, but I want it to be something more. I want it to be a special evening alone with him. Like he cooks us both dinner, I give him a few massages, we have a nice pleasant conversation, and then we stay up all night watching movies, something along those lines.

I have no doubt that he would actually do what I have proposed. I mean he lets me call him sweet names all the time and I'm constantly touching on him and he doesn't care. There was a time last week when I just held him from behind for awhile and he just let me do it. Not to mention there was this other time I pulled him into my lap and he just laid there and let me stroke his hair and rub all over him. But my only problem is how do I tell him I want to have this special evening without it sounding too romantic? If he indeed is hiding in the closet, I don't want to scare him off right away and ruin my chances. Any advice would be appreciated.

 

Yeah everyone else keeps telling me the exact same thing so you would think I would listen by now. I'm just so afraid that if I let things happen, I might not like the result. I've fallen hard for this guy and I don't want to lose him.