Crush worked out?

nope - i just approached my crush and she turned me down - yet she has been unbelievably understanding.

 

i must say - for all the anxiety it was causing me by seeing her almost everyday and NOT saying anything - saying something at least put things out in the open - made her understand a lot of why the way i have been acting. I feel a little better - although disappointed, I at least know more about what the reality is. She has been great (its only been a week). I told her i was embarrased and she said i had no reason to be. i hope things stay ok

 

Sorry to but I just told my crush and it back fired.

 

So overall, would you all say coming out to your crush is a bad idea?

 

part of me wish i didnt , part was glad i did. i am still not 100% that she isnt interested - so if so, this will open the door. and if not, well then she has a better understanding of who i am. more honesty - which will produce a better friendship - i hope

 

Agreed!

 

Generally a bad idea. Unless you have dirt on them, to blackmail them with if they make fun of you.