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Does anyone understand what this means?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by CrimsonThunder, Mar 19, 2008.

  1. CrimsonThunder

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    Today I was walking around with my friend and he said to me:

    Him: "You know if two guys have sex it doesn't mean they're gay."
    Me: "Umm, what?"
    Him: "Like if two guys have sex they're not gay."
    Me: "Yes they are! *laughs*"
    Him: "But it can mean that they're just experimenting with their sexuality. Too see if they like it or not."
    Me: "Oh yeah, thats true."

    I didn't know if thats him just being smart, or him trying to tell me something. (that he wants to experiment?)

    Kinda left me a bit confused, I was going to joke with him and ask "why, did you want to?" but he said hes straight, but with his logic he could be straight but want to experiment. =P I normally wouldn't think twice about something like this, but hes hella cute. ^__^
     
  2. Alexander

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    That would be red flags for "I wanna do a guy, now!" :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  3. CrimsonThunder

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    You reckon? He acts really gay in a joking matter, but I dunno. I think I just want him to be. XD
     
  4. Jim1454

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    It could be wishful thinking, but I'm not sure why he'd bring it up if he wasn't interested himself. No harm in asking, really, is there?
     
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    Red Flag Red Flag Act On It Asap

    or at least that what i would do
     
  6. Ty

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    It sounded to me like he had done something with another guy and was trying to get confirmation that he wasn't actually gay XD
     
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    ^ Yes, I think Ty is probably right there.
     
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    ^^^ Yeah, that sounds much more realistic. I doubt he is trying to experiment with you; I think he is seeking reassurance that he isn't gay even though he might of did something with a guy.
     
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    well, I think you should at least talk it over with him. He seems like he was testing the water with you to see how you would respond. Its obviously on his mind, and as a friend, I think you should talk to him about it. I don't know... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: just my opinion.
     
  10. Leigh

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    thats what i thought too.
    is he a really close friend?? cus if you act on it and thats not how he meant it it could be awkward :S

    id wait to see if he brings it up again, but thats just me...
     
  11. CrimsonThunder

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    Wow good point Ty.

    But I don't know how to bring it back up. >_>
     
  12. crimsonarcher

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    I think that's what it was about too.
     
  13. sexyalex

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    well one day when u two are walking together just say....*make sure ur walking the same rouit u were walking the day he asked u"so...i had a question but didn't know how to ask...if a guy experiments right...then dosn' like it...shouldn't he try with someone else? :shrug:"

    then start building up the convo. and u usually think twice huh? personally if a guy who is a close friend of mine said that to me i would be quick to say "so, *ehem* idk, but i think i would want to experiment*looks across to him:dry: *...wanna try?" but ask jokingly and if he said yes then IT'S ON. :lol: