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Should I..?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Laurenngoesrawr, Mar 6, 2013.

  1. Laurenngoesrawr

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    Virginia
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    A few people
    I'm fourteen and I have this huge urge to tell my parents. I'm good friends with a girl who is a lesbian, and every time something is brought up about her, mom asks 'she's not getting the wrong idea about your friendship, is she?' I'm getting very tired of it.

    A few minutes ago, me and mom got in a conversation about it and she said "Never in a million years did I think you or your sister could be a lesbian." This was said because she was thinking about the time last year, when I got caught holding hands with a girl, who happens to be the friend I talked about in the earlier paragraph.

    Now, should I tell my mom? I have the urge to, I'm tired of hiding it. I'm afraid she wouldn't let me see my friend anymore.
     
  2. forgetregret8

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    I think you should tell her but make it clear that you and this girl are just friends, so it would be like a straight guy and girl that are friends.