I'm fourteen and I have this huge urge to tell my parents. I'm good friends with a girl who is a lesbian, and every time something is brought up about her, mom asks 'she's not getting the wrong idea about your friendship, is she?' I'm getting very tired of it. A few minutes ago, me and mom got in a conversation about it and she said "Never in a million years did I think you or your sister could be a lesbian." This was said because she was thinking about the time last year, when I got caught holding hands with a girl, who happens to be the friend I talked about in the earlier paragraph. Now, should I tell my mom? I have the urge to, I'm tired of hiding it. I'm afraid she wouldn't let me see my friend anymore.
I think you should tell her but make it clear that you and this girl are just friends, so it would be like a straight guy and girl that are friends.