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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Romandude, Mar 6, 2013.

  1. Romandude

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    So, I'm new here and I'm not really sure what my sexuality is but the freakier part to me is that my dad is a pastor. My family is of the Mennonite denomination of Christianity ( Amish people who can listen to dubstep ) . I know my dad would prob be ok with it but the possibility of him rejecting me scares me. I don't plan on letting him or anyone for that matter find out because it might be a phase or something. If my sexuality remains the same I will probably let people know but if he some how finds out before hand, well that's what I'm asking
     
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    I like that definition of the Mennonites lol

    What makes you think he might reject you? And what do you mean by rejection...?
     
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    Not accepting me etc
     
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    But you think he'd probably be ok? Are you guys currently close?

    But I think you're right, as long as you are still unsure, theres no point in coming out about anything.
     
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    We are extremely close, but how will I explain this to him if he finds it on my history or something
     
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    I dont know, as honestly and heartfelt as possible?
     
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    I guess. But it would still be a nightmare practically I'd probably faint or something
     
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    Do you think he might suspect anything?
     
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    He knows I had a girlfriend but he doesn't know I broke up with her so he probably doesn't
     
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    Any reason he might go through your history? (maybe you should delete it or use private browsing windows just to be safe)
     
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    I dono. But I have an iPad not a laptop so there is no private browsing