I finally came out to someone but now my best mate has noticed that something has changed and keeps telling me nothing will change between us. Do you think I should tell her? I'm just so scared
Hi. First may I ask, do you know her opinions on sexuality. What I mean is do you know if she's homophobic or bigoted or if she doesn't care? If she is, tread lightly. If she's not, go for it but ONLY if you're sure you can trust her. BUt I would really recommend finding out her opinion first.
She's paying attention to everything to figure out what's wrong and if I randomly ask her opinion on being gay won't she guess?
It sounds that by saying "nothing will change between us" she will probably be fine with it, it sounds as if she's trying to give you a platform to tell her