I know this sounds really stupid, because it's obvious, but I just had a revelation. After being kind of upset because I haven't found any b/f material, I thought a bit, and then it came to me. I stopped my music and was like "Whoa! I don't need a b/f, I have myself!". It sounds ridiculous but really if I think about it, I can take care of myself. I don't need to wait for the right person to come around who can appreciate me, I can have fun with myself(edit:not like that perv). I know that the right person will come around when I'm ready, but for the mean time I can be my own boyfriend. I know I sound crazy, but I'm just really happy right now, It's like I just realized that everything I'm looking for is right here and I don't have to wait for it. ride: :icon_bigg :icon_bigg :icon_bigg :icon_bigg ride:
Its not stupid at all! This kind of thinking is healthy. Sitting around crying and depressed because you don't have a bf at the moment is not. Love yourself and everything else will fall into place.
I take the advice from a Barenaked Ladies song "It's only Me" [YOUTUBE]http://youtube.com/watch?v=o7eUFuYPREU[/YOUTUBE] "Who knows me half as well as me?" "I can't think of anybody else I'd rather Spend some one on one time with, It's not that hard to see, It's only me. I'm the me in monogamy I'm not asking a lot of me I give me R-E-S-P-E-C-T." "They say you'll never love another 'Til you love yourself, Well, brother I'm in love with everyone I see. It's only me." W00t for independancy!
The amazing thing is - the more you enjoy yourself, the more others will enjoy you, too. It just works that way. Lex
Like Lex said, enjoy yourself is the best thing in the whole world. I'm enjoying myself seriously. Haha. Let's fly the flag dudes! ride:
