I'm a notorious swinger, but I'm positive I've known for a while where on the spectrum I lie. I'm just about exclusively gay. Not an issue. Thing is, I've been excessively vocal about it, and people have gotten annoyed with me in the past, constantly switching between the poles. I don't want to be seen as though this is another 'boy cries wolf' call for attention statement this time. Should I just say it one final time and stick with it? Or should I just keep on keeping on and cutting off potential and 'openness'? I'm accused to be a hypocrite. Basically the world thinks I'm strictly straight from my little religious phase (what on earth was I thinking..) last year. I don't know. My teenage years have been a mess, and I'm grateful I'm coming to the end of the chaos and properly finding myself in the world now. I know this isn't really a question- Sorry.
I don't really know what to say, and perhaps others don't as well, because I don't know what lots of the things you say mean. Like, I dunno what a swinger is, and I don't know what homoflexible means. I'll hazard a guess and say that maybe your feelings of attraction ebb and flow greatly, such that sometimes you don't feel attracted to people? I'm sorry I can't help you more, but I hope this was cathartic for you in some sense.