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Oh crap....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Ruby, Mar 31, 2013.

  1. Ruby

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    I kind of just came out as bigender to my ex boyfriend on facebook. I knew I should have went to sleep. I have no idea how he's going to take it since I know he wants me back. Good new is he really can't out me to anyone but still...Gah I need to learn to filter my mouth. :bang: At least I didn't say anything about be bisexual-ish
     
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    What did you say and how did he respond? =O
     
  3. Ruby

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    Basically this:
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    Just found that my gender might be a bit more fluid then I originally thought and I don't have to be but it would be easier I would imagine
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    Fluid gender ? What mean?
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    This is my basic meaning of it: both male and female, either simultaneously or alternating.
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    How does that work?
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    I don't really know yet...one day I'll more male and another I'll more female again, but sometimes like right now I'm in between.
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    Hmm sounds hard to cope with...
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    Sometimes that's why the crisis

    Hope I didn't run you off


    Yep just outted myself to him...I need to go to bed before I just go tell grandma...

    Good news is he says:

    Oh no lol I was trekking through mud my bad and honestly you're still you so why would it matter lol? Don't crises you still got frands

    Maybe it's okay...
     
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    Yaaaaay! He seems really accepting! Thats awesome!!! :slight_smile:
     
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    Ok...sweet...I don't want to do that again. New rule no facebook chatting after 2 am, I say stupid things. I can't believe I just went and said that.
     
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    He seems cool with everything, that’s always a plus. :wink:
     
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    I'd say congrats and don't stress too much over it.
    He sounds pretty cool with it.
     
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    That was pretty laid back response from him, so i reckon it was a good thing :slight_smile: