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Update to another thread, need advice!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by greenthumb95, Mar 31, 2013.

  1. greenthumb95

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    Hey everyone,

    So, I have had great feedback in regard to an older post i posted on another site:

    Bluelight

    I wanted to give an update, and ask for some opinions. My fantasies and thoughts have not gone away, and I have been talking way more to a female friend of mine who knows of my confusions. I am having a hard time dealing with the amount of judgement I am getting from people who I thought were my friends.

    People seem to be picking up on my interest in men alot, even though I dont act in a way in which i think someone would suspect it. I still havent fully sat down with my wife yet, as I am able to make comments on social network sites, and over text..but i freeze when i get the idea in person.

    I guess what I am asking, is what do i do? I am tired of not knowing if i am bi, but I could NEVER cheat on her. The girls I work with, and female friends all have either picked up on things in the past, or ask me about it.

    any thoughts?

    ---------- Post added 31st Mar 2013 at 03:33 AM ----------

    Am I in denial of being bisexual? Does my wife fully understand/know?