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Cutest guy in school.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by RobbIsFlyyy, Mar 29, 2008.

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  1. RobbIsFlyyy

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    So ok, here's the low down.

    I'm a sophomore at my high school. (GO WARRIORS!), and there's this guy. And let me just say. Oh. My. God!
    He's perfect.
    About 5'8.
    About 150 pounds.
    Basketball/Baseball player.
    Brown hair, and blue eyes.
    Beautiful smile.
    Great complexion.
    Perfect ass, and prepish. (Wears A&F, AE, Hollister, etc.)

    This guy is amazing in every aspect, in my opinion.
    He matches everything I look for.

    He and I even have the same name.
    Robert.

    Recently, as I sit in my seat during 6th period waiting for class to start, he stands across the hall against the wall, because his tacher is always late, and I'll jsut sit and stare at him.
    And he looks down the hall, and then looks into my room, and smiles at me.
    :]

    I cant do anything but sit and smile back at him.
    And I get all nervous inside.

    The other day at lunch he bumped into me, and I'm thinking it was intentional, and I want all crazy and I leaned over to my best friend who knows about me being bi, and I said...

    "He touched me!!!"

    It made my entire week.

    It's so sad, I just want to tell him that I like him.

    I think I have my first crush on someone I dont think I can have.

    Any advice?
    Please?

    :icon_redf
    :tears:
     
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    Well, I know exactly how you feel. I had/have a crush who is just perfect! I really wanted to tell him that I like him, but didn't know how. So I first decided to test the waters and started to talk to him a little more than I usually do (which is not at all). BUt it was small stuff, like "what's the homework for x class" or "Nice shoes." I even once in class stared at his eyes for a good 5 minutes before he noticed and I just said "you have really nice eyes." But eventually I decided to tell him. I mean, not everything. I told him that I am gay, and he took it amazingly, saying that he would never tell anyone, and that it's good that i'm comfortable talking about it. But then I got really hung up on him. I had to tell him. But I didn't know how, so I sent him the lyrics to a song on Facebook (in a private message, not his wall). It was really hard to do, but I had to do it. And he responded in a very nice way. He said he wasn't gay (which I am suspicious about) so I shouldn't expect anything. And he said that he was glad that I was honest, cuz that's the most important thing. But I haven't seen him since cuz we're on spring break.

    I just realized I directed this whole thing to me, so sorry. But I guess the "moral" to the story is just go for it. You two don't seem like the closest of friends, just like acquaintances, so what do you have to lose? Just do it. But when I told him, I did feel kinda depressed afterwards, and can't stop thinking about him, so maybe you should just wait.

    Anything that you do, good luck!
     
  3. RobbIsFlyyy

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    Thats a really inspirational story.
    Really.
    And I thank you for your reply.

    I want to tell him.
    But I know that if I do, someone will find out, and it'll leak out at school.

    And where I live, if your gay/bi, you become a total outcast.
    No one likes to talk to you except gay/bi people.
    Your laughed at when you walk by, and people make gay jokes about you behind your back.

    People suspect it about me, but I continuously deny it.
    I have to.
    Or i'm ruined.

    I want/need to tell him.
    Seriously.

    Anymore advice?
     
  4. kiddo

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    Exactly like my dream guy.
    Except with green eyes. :d

    Try taking it slowly.
    It might take some time, but get to know him.
    Maybe you might find out a thing or two.
    Good luck.
     
  5. RobbIsFlyyy

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    Thanks for the advice.
    :]
    And I love my some blue eyes.
    He's gorgeous.
    I'm tempted to post a pic.
    :]
    Should i?
     
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    Don't get involved until you know what kind of music he likes :grin:. Take it slow and see if he's actually gay first.
     
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    WOW makes me think about when i used to be in highschool i had a crush on this boy he was in 4 of my classes. And we used to stare at eachother all the time in class. I remember i touched his face once and i throught i was going to pass out he just laughed


    But u should just find out his first and last name and look for him on myspace. And add him and see what happens from there
     
  8. RobbIsFlyyy

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    lolol.
    His music taste is somewhat similar to mine.
    :]
    Rap and such things.

    lolol.

    He's wayy hotttt.
    Should I post a pic?
     
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    Me too... I have a good crush. It's sometimes very inspiring to see a person that you like ! :grin:
     
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    Ooooh!!! Can I post a pic of my guy?
    I don't know if I can....the only pics I have of him are with his shirt off.....
     
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    Posting pictures of people without permission is unadvisable. As suggested above, the person may not want to be linked to this website. Furthermore, it is a violation of the Code of Conduct, bolded for emphasis:

     
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    OK... never mind. But trust me when I say he's H-O-T!!!
     
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    Maybe you should talk to him. He is pretty good looking. Lol. I don't know .... maybe he is interested in you? Does he know at all that you are bi? It's a possibility.

    Maybe ..hmm.. I don't know. Lol. Sorry I can't be more help. I know how hard it is having a crush that you cannot have and thinking the world of them, especially if they acknowlege you! Lol. Well good luck with whatever you do!
     
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    I removed the post with the photo and a few others about it etc.

    As Josh pointed out the CofC prohibits using photos you don't have permission to use.

    But in this case the bigger concern is this guy's privacy. He is straight and could be offended or embarrassed if his picture is on a gay site without his permission.
     
  15. RobbIsFlyyy

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    Ehh, whatever.
    I suppose that's my "warning".
    I didn't know.
    No one had pointed me in the general direction of the "rules" section.
    Therefore, I wasn't familiar with them.

    My bad.

    But he is wicked hot, righ?
     
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    Ooh! I wanna see him! Is it ok to PM pictures? (esp the shirtless ones! Lolll)
     
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    Ooh I wanna see him! Is pming pictures ok? (esp the shirtless ones :grin:)
     
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    You cannot PM photos.

    This is supposed to be a support thread but the original purpose has been completely lost in the picture posting stuff etc so I'll close it.

    Robb, please start a new thread if you want to discus your friend further in a way that is relevant to the support section.
     
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