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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Dakine, Apr 5, 2013.

  1. Dakine

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    You're just about to come out to a second person and they text saying they're falling asleep. Oh well, there's always another day :slight_smile:
     
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    Lol... That big dramatic moment, your breath catches, you slowly reach for the send button...

    And then ya XD
     
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    The shitty deal was I wasn't even nervous this go round. The first one was a bag of nerves. Mainly cause it was to the person I'm digging big time, but still...
     
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    You should just text them the message anyways, it'll surely wake then up.

    Especially if it was in all caps ^___^
     
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    Hahahahaha true

    "Wake up bitch!! I'm bi baby, that's right, the best of both worlds just like jay z and r Kelly said it!!"
     
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    Haha I wish I could do it that way. Like "Oh, yeah, I'm gay trans guy. Have a nice brunch!"
     
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    Fixed. WOOO

    More seriously, congrats on almost coming out to another person! There's always tomorrow :thumbsup:
     
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    Yah part of me wants to wait for the person I came out to, to coke out before I come out to the next person (I'm that certain, that's why I came out, to give him support) but part of me is wanting to tell the world cause of the religion I grew up in. I just want ppl to know God loves you no matter what, as long as u love Him
     
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    To coke out? :roflmao: I'm sorry, I had to point it out. Gosh, that changes the meaning of the sentence drastically, doesn't it?

    I totally agree with you about God and love. =) And that's very sweet of you, wanting to support your friend.
     
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    Cocaine is a hell of a drug

    Yah I'm hoping, cause I'm itching to tell more ppl, but the last few times I've wanted to talk to other people about it, it's like God won't let me. It's like it's supposed to be between just me and my friend for now. Hard, but if it helps him I will do it.
     
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    I actually had a really good response formulated if you meant "coke out"... :lol:
     
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    Hahahaha go for it." It's Friday, you ain't got no job, you ain't got shit to do, I'm gunna get u high"
     
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    Hahaha omg. Like if they were all coked out, it would take the pressure off a bit, I think. So no worries there. They might not even remember.

    But seriously, if you think he is gay, that's like the perfect person to come out to first. I relate to the feeling of wanting to tell the world, but I lack confidence.

    Sounds like you have worked up the confidence though. Good for you!
     
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    Thanks. I'm really holding back for him cause he's having a rough go even admitting it to himself...total denial, but total obvious