"Sort-of-maybe-might-be-bi" guys. With girlfriends. That hit on you. And say they want to mess around with you. ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Now, normally, I'd just tell someone like this to fuck off. Problem being is that he is my best friend. And I have a monstrous crush on him. UURURURUGHGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. However I have enough sense to not try to get in between him and his girlfriend. This just... seriously pisses me off. Has anyone ever been in a situation like this? And made it out alive? Fuck. My apologies for the rant.
URgh, difficult situation. Have you tried talking to him? As in, telling him you like him, but that since he's got a gf its not a good idea? since he's your best mate, he should be pretty willing to listen to you. Because if you mess around and things don't work out, then you're going to end up REALLY hurt. I hope this helps, you're welcome to talk to me or PM me or Email me at anytime.
It's all good. haha IF you go for it your friendship will be forever changed. You'll get some good uh... fun time out of it but the cost could be your friendship altogether or you could live happily ever after. Wouldn't suggest doing it with his girlfriend still in the picture though.... if he gets second thoughts afterwards... having cheating related back to his potential bi/homosexuality would only push him farther away from acceptance.
That doesn't really piss me off, but it shows how much they value their relationship. Thus I have no respect for them.
Well, there are a few things you could do here... If he knows that you are gay, it makes things easier. You could mildly suggest something to him or make a small gesture (i.e.: hold his hand) If not, and you feel ready, come out to him, and see what his reaction is Good luck with this all (sounds like you need it), Bryan
The best response to this would be, "I'd love to mess around with you, too. But I don't mess around with people who already are dating someone else." This makes it clear that you have no issue with HIM, per se, or with his bisexuality. It shows your issue is with his attitude towards both his girlfriend (it's OK to cheat) and you (you can be my "little thing on the side"). Lex
