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Does messing around with a girl make me a bad person

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Beware Of You, Apr 8, 2013.

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  1. Beware Of You

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    About a year ago, me and my best friend (a girl) were chilling out, this was just after I had come out of the closet.

    She said that I am a cute sweet guy and I will make one guy very happy one day, she said that I make her happy as a friend, and she sometimes wishes that we could have been more at the time. She then said how can I be sure that I am gay if I have never gotten close to a girl

    Anyway one thing led to another and we ended up kissing, which quickly progressed into messing around in the bedroom. When we tried to hit it off, I couldn't ahem get my stuff up or feel anything. While I liked the kissing and cuddling it was impossible to get turned on with her. So I guess that makes me a fat 6 on the kinsey then.

    It hasn't affected our friendship, but I kinda feel bad for messing around with a girl, I was single at the time but I feel I have somewhat objectified my best friend.
     
    #1 Beware Of You, Apr 8, 2013
  2. Winfield

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    no man dont feel bad....

    she was asking for it too... its not like she had wrestle ya... or did she? :grin:

    its out of curiosity and she was there to help you experience.. i wouldnt sweat it if i were you :thumbsup:
     
    #2 Winfield, Apr 8, 2013
  3. greatwhale

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    I love the phrase: "one thing led to another" :grin:

    It's sex, you performed predictably, chalk it up to a confirmation of being gay!

    It's not as if you signed a contract with the International Gay Federation and they're about to revoke your membership!
     
    #3 greatwhale, Apr 8, 2013
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