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Coming out to guys...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by SwedishGuy, Apr 17, 2013.

  1. SwedishGuy

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    Location:
    Stockholm
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Okay, so I'm out to a couple of female friends, and I feel reallly comfortable with my sexuality when I'm around them and talking to them about it is no issue.

    BUT, my problem is that I have a hard time making friends with guys because of my sexuality. I'm always paranoid about them finding out that I'm gay and I'm even afraid about randoms guys on the street finding out about my sexuality. Even the ones that are gay and trying to flirt with me! (Not necessarily on the street but you get what I mean).

    It's really an issue since I have recently managed to get out of a depression and now I want to move forward in life and have sex and relationships and stuff.

    I guess I have a fear of rejection or something, but it's only geared toward guys. So, does anyone have any advice on what to do in a situation like this?