I don't want to come out until I'm sure of my sexuality, but I don't think I'll be sure of my sexuality until I'm in a relationship. I don't think I'll be able to find a relationship in the closet.
Coming out as bisexual or lesbian? You can always try coming out as bi, and if you get into a same-sex relationship then decide it's not for you, explain things to your partner. They should be someone you trust, most definitely, and they'll stick with you on your decision. I explained being gay to an ex boyfriend, and things turned out well. Keep calm and sound confident if you need to
Thanks for the advice. My confusion is the main reason I'm mostly in the closet. I really don't think I can really know my sexuality until I'm in more relationships. I do know I'm not straight and if I come out as unsure people will probably think I'm a confused straight girl.
Just say you are Questioning if you are uncomfortable with Bi/Les label. LGBTQQIAP Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual/Transgender/Queer/Questioning/Intersex/Asexual/Pansexual You got a ton of options. Not just limited to either Bisexual or Lesbian(*hug*)
I'm not comfortable calling myself questioning anymore. I did call myself questioning at fourteen and fifteen, but I don't think it's a suitable label anymore. To me questioning implies that I'm straight and going through a phase. I know I like girls, I'm just not too sure about the guys.
Why not just say that, then? You could just say you're attracted to girls and possibly guys without putting a label on it.
I'll ask what I've asked on this forum before; What does your heart tell you? What does your head tell you?
Sometimes my heart tells me I'm a lesbian, my head tells me I'm bisexual because I occasionally like guys.
I'm currently in a closeted relationship with my boyfriend. Only a handful of people know - and they knew after we got together. So it is definitely possible for two people to get together without coming out. We met as friends as part of a university club, and we hung out with our friends. Sooner or later, we talked one-on-one and began flirting without realizing - and then at one point, the signs become clear that he is gay (gaydar / just our actions toward one another) and then we started becoming a couple. It's difficult sometimes to keep it from everyone, but we're very in love. It definitely made me learn a lot about how I feel - and how truly happy I can be with someone of the same sex. So hang in there, there will be people that are in the same boat - as long as you are open about it, you may be lucky to find one of them like you. You just have to be open or you might miss it.
