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Confused

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by jessika, May 5, 2013.

  1. jessika

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    So I went to prom on friday with a boy and it felt right.
    Then I went to a pride event on saturday and held hands with a girl. and that felt right too.
    I'm just really confused, and scared of what is going on. I don't know who I am or how to figure things out and don't know who to talk to about it. any advice?
     
  2. Lexington

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    Welcome to (the posting side of) EC!

    It looks like you're still early in the process, and you're still "collecting data". That's fine. Not everybody has it all figured out by the time high school is over. It sounds like right now, you're doing fine with both guys and girls. So just run with that for now. You don't have to make any proclamation just yet - just consider yourself "possibly bi" for now, and see what happens. If you have cool and supportive friends, feel free to let them know...or feel free to hold off. Up to you. :slight_smile:

    Lex