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How to tell my friend?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by swimmertriangle, May 15, 2013.

  1. swimmertriangle

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    So, I want to tell my good friend that I'm gay. It will be the very first person I've told and I'm really nervous to tell her. I don't want to say it upfront that I'm gay, but more along the lines of "what if I don't like girls?"
    What do you guys think? Should I do something different? I'm really confused and nervous.
     
  2. WanderingGhost

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    You should try saying something along the lines of "What would you do if I was the type of guy that likes other guys...?" or something like that.
    But don't worry, if she's a good friend she'll accept and support you. You just gotta make sure you're telling the right friend. :wink:
     
  3. swimmertriangle

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    Thanks, that actually really helps :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm glad I could help!^^