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Movin' Too Fast?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by DudeBroItsChris, Apr 19, 2008.

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  1. DudeBroItsChris

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    Well Ive known my friend Ryan for about 2 and a half years and we are now dating. Within the first week of dating we have already gave head and hand jobs and such. Do you guys here think we are moving to fast?
     
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    I'd most likely be doing the same thing if I had a boyfriend. My opinion; if both of you consent with it and are enjoying it, then I don't really see anything wrong with it.

    Probably shouldn't trust my opinion since, well, I've never been in that position! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Okay thanks for the advice.
     
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    Honestly, I'd say it's cool. You presumably know each other pretty well. The main reason for proceeding with caution physically is that you not get too emotionally entangled with somebody you don't know too well. Just play safe, K? :slight_smile:

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    Okay thanks. that makes me happy. :slight_smile:
     
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    Well, as you've known each other for some time and I guess he's also 16.....go for it. If it's what you both want don't worry. There isn't really a too slow or too fast situation if it's what you both want to do.
     
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    You say within a week, so that could mean straight after you got together it happened, in that case it probably would be too fast. But after a week together that happening would mean its coming along smoothly. But because you've known eachother for so long it changes everything, wouldnt really matter if it did happen straight after because you know eachother well.
     
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    Two guys, 16 years old, known each other for years, in love, horny and full of hormones... Everything seems totally normal to me. Don't worry, enjoy, talk to each other to make sure you are both on the same page and let things take their natural course.

    Do get the feeling that things are going too fast? Or were you just seeking reassurance?
     
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    Reassurance.

    Thanks though, I feel alright about the situation now.

    [Hes 15, I failed once..Not that It matters.]
     
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