because they are hit on quite a bit by the opposite gender, and more in pursuit of a potential relationship than a hook-up? There are many reasons people come clean about their sexuality. The most prevalent reason, I think, is that they just want people to see who they really are. However, have you seen this (the being hit on) be the primary reason for someone being transparent about their sexual orientation? And do you think they should when this continues to happen? Or do you just feel that people can hit on you all they want and you are not required to do or say anything?