Hey ..... Long time not being here..... I would love to get advice on how to tell my fiance I am a lesbian....and to come out to everyone ,,,,, I am the perfect back door daughter.....and honestly I am sick off putting everyone's feelings before mine..... I honestly need love and support on this one...... Sad Maxi:icon_sad:
hallo..... Oky I guess I need to explain this better..... When i was younger I started to like girls, but thought nothing of it.....Till i kissed a girl ones...Then i was bio.... My parents think iam this perfect little angel....not really but the guy at-least..... So i started dating this guy 3 years ago and my parents adore and admire him, and think he is the perfect man for me....he is a great guy to be honest but not the one for me....because iam a Lesbian.......honest to say it but scard to the bone to tell people... the reaction might not be great, might be bad..... might me anything...... To be clear ....Iam engadge to this man and my time is running up.... I dont want to hurt people but i dont want to be unhappy forever.... my parents would be crushed,,,, they really love and adore this guy... I am just scard they would hate me, because i was and will never be there favorite child and thats fine by me......but the little i do have I dont wanna loos.... I just need help ....advice on how to do this the right way....without loosing my parents Maxi ---------- Post added 7th Jun 2013 at 01:15 PM ---------- hallo..... Oky I guess I need to explain this better..... When i was younger I started to like girls, but thought nothing of it.....Till i kissed a girl ones...Then i was bio.... My parents think iam this perfect little angel....not really but the guy at-least..... So i started dating this guy 3 years ago and my parents adore and admire him, and think he is the perfect man for me....he is a great guy to be honest but not the one for me....because iam a Lesbian.......honest to say it but scard to the bone to tell people... the reaction might not be great, might be bad..... might me anything...... To be clear ....Iam engadge to this man and my time is running up.... I dont want to hurt people but i dont want to be unhappy forever.... my parents would be crushed,,,, they really love and adore this guy... I am just scard they would hate me, because i was and will never be there favorite child and thats fine by me......but the little i do have I dont wanna loos.... I just need help ....advice on how to do this the right way....without loosing my parents Maxi
Hi Maxi, You are doing the right thing by not getting married! Can your reach out to a friend or therapist where you are?
hey ellie Yes it is hard to break family's apart but i dont want to make him unhappy later in life .....Go read my new post >>>>> i came out to my fiance