Imperfections

No reason to throw forevers around. Your sister will presumably come around eventually. She's throwing "gay" in your face not because it's wrong, not because it's something to be ashamed of, but because she thinks it's a sore spot. (And it probably still is, even if it's not as sore as she'd hope.) Next time you hear her talking and heading in that direction, don't bother listening to the words. Listen to what's behind them. Ask yourself, "Why is she saying this? Is she trying to make herself feel better by pulling me down?" If you recognize that, it should make handling her comments easier.

Oh, and thank your mother, and give her a hug. She sounds cool.

Lex

 

QFT!!

All she wanted was a reaction, she knows picking on you about your sexuality will give her that reaction. Don't give her that satisfaction and you will more then likely discover she has no problem with it at all!

Good luck

 

Your sister sounds very immature and is just throwing around words she thinks might hurt you. Don't let her get to you. You said the right thing when you told her you were proud of who you are.

 

If you can't rise above these spiteful comments you could join her with a stinging remark like, 'maybe I'm not perfect but at least I don't deliberately hurt people's feelings'

Of course she is being spiteful because she gets a reaction out of you, maybe she is jealous of the attention you homosexuality got when you first came out, of course your parents would have been concerned, of course there would have been discussions about you. It seems that you sister wants all the limelight and can't bare to think of your parents discussing anyone but her!

Let's hope that this is just her immaturity showing through and not her true nature!

 

what is QFT

 

When arguing with your borthers and sisters, insults will be thrown often about you and things that aren't normal about you, to them anyway. Whether that be having a big nose, being fat, being gay. They will say whatever it takes to get a reaction and try to hurt you! You handled it really well though!


(Don't know where big nose came from, first thing that came to my head!)

 

"quoted for truth" i think

 

I think you should be more sorry you have a bitch for a sister.

 

Did you really need to post something like that? Regardless of what you think you should'nt be saying crap like that about someones siblings.

 

Well, she is only 13, she will probably (hopefully) later realize how wrong she was and regret saying it, even if she doesn't admit it.
It kind of sounds like to me that you did something she didn't like, maybe its just because you're gay, idk
I wouldn't worry about it too much(*hug*)
Also, your mom sounds cool and caring
I could also jokingly give you ideas to what to say back to her, but i dont want to give you any bad ideas lol

 

She's only 13. That's a weird age for girls and boys, as you should know. However, you handled it right. When she gets older, hopefully she'll start thinking for herself, rather then what she has been taught. For instance: My sisters were like her when they were younger, as we were all brought up in a church environment. But we all started thinking for ourself, I came out, and they both accepted it (one faster then the other, but still).

 

It's the imperfections that make us who we are, they make us stand out, they make us unique. The world would be a terribly dull place if everyone was 'perfect.'

 

Wow, this pretty messed up. No offense.

Maybe you should tell your parents some of the things she is saying, and how it makes you feel. Every thirteen year old is afraid of their parents, to some degree.

 

Being more of an offensive person, I'd tell her that the fact that she's an ignorant bitch is more of an imperfection than your love for the superior sex. <3

Lesbians don't kill me, now.