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Advice?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by FreeFlow9917, Jun 17, 2013.

  1. FreeFlow9917

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    Well guys i need to ask for advice when it comes to telling my dad and step dad that i am gay. I told mom, but i KNOW she doesn't believe that i am gay. If i tell my dad, i guarantee you i will be called every curse word under the sun, the fag, gay, fairy, queer, homo, etc.: And my step dad, i don't know how his reaction will turn out. I plan to wait a couple of months when i turn 16, but keeping it in feels like a sword cutting through my stomach, it's tearing me limb to limb and dismembering me until i have no idea who i even am anymore. So, should i wait to tell, because it's killing me and i fill like an oversized balloon waiting to burst the damn bubble. But i also don't to tear the bond between me and my dad and step dad, idk what to do right now.

    ---------- Post added 17th Jun 2013 at 02:01 PM ----------

    Oh shit wrong forum, but still feel free to help.
     
  2. Krilky

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    If your dad is really that awful, you really should wait until you're 18.
    You have legal recourse in the event of punishments in that case.