ok, i know, another boring is he or isnt he thread... but im really desperate here. i have a classmate, hes from french, and well, he considered himself as european. but the thing is, because i considered myself as obvious, i think he kinda know that im gay. so, everytime we see each other, he kinda began to tease me. it starts when we have a drama class together. when i was resting the ground, laying, he came and touch my hair the way...... lovers did. its like "hello, sweety. good morning" kinda touch. but i played it coll that time. i said "watcha lookin at?" and then, these stuff began to occur occasionally. when we met in the hallway, he began to rub his chest, like some porn prolog u know:lol: . and just to make sure if imthe cause, yesterday i tease him back. at the sports class, i began to pull my shirt up to, kinda show my underwear. i do it in front of him. and guess what? he came to his friends, but doin it in front of me, and pullin his pants off, till its...3/4 underwear shows. i started to think that he likes me...BUT, seeing the circumstances are, im afraid its just another str9 guys tease... watcha think? im so crazy for him ryt now........
I would have to think that if he is straight, that he is very secure with his sexuality. I don't know any straight guys who would get openly "intimate" with another guy. If people see another guy coming on to a guy, then they automatically assume he is gay, especially in a school setting.Honestly, it doesn't sound like a tease to me, but I can't really say for sure because I have never met the guy before. If he is cool about it, I would just go with the flow for now and see what ensues. If you want to figure out if he is straight or not, I would test him in certain ways. Like holding hands with him, kissing him on the cheek, etc. Anthying really that would make a straight guy uncomfortable. See how he reacts to that, then work from there. Hope this helps a little bit, never had too much experience in these type of things, but I gave it my best shot. Good luck
I actually believe it's a tease. Being the only gay guy in my school i deal with heaps of this every day at school, and a LOT of it is a lot worse then that.. I just learnt to enjoy it and took it as a good opportunity to perv.
Whilst I'm not sure, I think it might be a tease - I think this because there's no eye-contact, no talking, just overt, physical gestures. As J Sheulke said, this could be a sign that he's very secure with his sexuality. However, there is always the possibility of the, I don't know - I want to say "double blind" but I don't know if that's the term. ie, where someone who is completely closeted acts out gay in a very obvious joking manner, because then it's obvious they're straight and that they're joking - except that they're not. (This does make sense - I've seen it done, and sort of done it myself in the past Although to other straight girls, not as a tease). This isn't hugely helpful, but I would be VERY cautious at taking it seriously. Do you know what I would do? I would try and call his bluff. See how far he's willing to take it. But there are a lot of straight people out there who want to tease us. I don't know why.
well, no straight eye contact. its like, im staring at him, but as soon as he looks at me, i look somewhere else. and ccdd, what do u mean by calling his bluff? i dont understand.... btw, hes so cute, and french, so.... oh, and he jokes being gay all the time (like rubbing my nipples and other guys)
he usually wears a brief, not too thight, not too loose. but that day, i think he uses the dark coloured one... HEY! why all the sudden ur curious about him? ur not curious about me? ive shown my underwear too, y'know:lol:.
