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I stopped being a chicken sh!t and told mom.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Asari, Jun 26, 2013.

  1. Asari

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    Sorry for the language. I knew my mom would accept me. She is the coolest person ever. I had a thirty minute conversation with her and was warring with myself the whole time. I eventually interrupted my mom and shouted "I'M GAY!" She chuckled and said, "I know." I said, "I know my sister told you but I wanted to tell you myself." I told her I wanted a princess and she was totally cool. She did ask me if the fact that my brother physically abused me had anything to do with it and I told her I have tuns of guy friends and that I don't hate guys. Now my dad sent me an angry email for supporting gay rights before and i told my mom how much that hurt me. My dad is really anti-gay and my mom told me it is ok for me to not tell him. I want to gain the courage to tell him eventually but things will be rough for a while after I tell him. I am just really glad that I have one awesome parent that I can share this big chunk of my life with. (!)
     
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    Congratulations Asari
     
  3. Great news about your mom! It sounds like it might not be worth the trouble telling your dad, though.
     
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    O fficially the BEST way I've ever heard of coming out!! Congrats!!!!! =DDDDD
     
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    Yay!

    Congrats!!
     
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    Congratulations! That's great!! (!)
     
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    Yay!!! Congrats I'm proud of you!! :grin:
     
  8. Asari

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    Thank you everyone! So glad I told her. :slight_smile:
     
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    congratulations!
     
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    awsome! congratulations!