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Coming out on uni - in one hour?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Quitex, May 6, 2008.

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  1. Quitex

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    We will be having a debate on some topics about humans and their evolution, which includes the topic of "Sex and Attraction" and hopefully I will use that to come out. I'll let you guys know how everything went.

    Btw, I had to write my ideas and I used one full page for that topic while less than a paragraph for the others. I guess at least my teacher will know at the end of the day. LOL.
     
    #1 Quitex, May 6, 2008
  2. Louise

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    Good luck, hope everything goes well, you are being very brave :eek: ! :thumbsup:
     
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    Wow, coming out in a lecture... GOOD LUCK!
     
    #3 Rahata, May 6, 2008
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    I would totally come out like that if I weren't already out. But I adore the nonchalant shock. <3 Goodluck.
     
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    Wow! Good luck with that. I hope you've got at least a few supporters in the room when you do that!
     
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    Good luck!!
     
    #6 GlindaRose, May 7, 2008
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    Good luck! I didn't exactly do the same thing, but when I was in year 10 I gave a presentation on same-sex marriage and that was the day the rumours started, because I didn't confirm or deny anything about my own sexuality and becase I was very emphatic. I wasn't as brae as you are!
     
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    what happened!?
     
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  9. Quitex

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    That day was horrible.

    First, No, I was unable to come out, which lead to me crying on the bathrooms (because I REALLY want to come out) but I understood it was not my fault, we didn't had enouhg time to cover up "homosexuality" however we will cover that up tomorrow :grin: :grin:

    Then, Internet broke down for TWO whole days, yesterday I posted this on the caf'e of my uni and I was like... making it not obvious if anyone was reading my screen. LOL.

    However, I was not able to come out yesterday but I hopefully will tomorrow. I AM NERVOUS!!!
    It will be fun... I've thouhgt about it... We're discussing about life and how some cultures think there is a human "model" which we should fight to be as similar to. Now I'd ask the question: "You think priests, monks and we, the gay community, are living the wrong life beacuse obviously we won't succeed on finding the human model on us?"
    Oh I am so anxious.... tomorrow will be :grin:

    And thanks to everyone who posted :grin: you rock guys.
     
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    Too bad you could not come out yesterday as you planned....but as you said, you'll have a chance tomorrow. Go for it! Good Luck!!! :icon_bigg
     
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    Bad luck for yester, good luck for tomorrow!! Sorry it was such a horrible day :frowning2:
     
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    Good luck - hope it is more positive this time!
     
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    Sending some good vibes (*hug*)

    Hope everything goes well for you!
     
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    Good luckz!

    Sending happy thoughts =D
     
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    omg. All I got to say is.. you got GUTS to do that lol. I don't think I'd be that brave in 100 years lol. GOOD LUCK though :grin: !
     
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    Wow. I'm excited to hear how this turns out! Let us know and good luck! (!)
     
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  18. Quitex

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    Seems like life is hating me so bad. Once again I ended depressed in the bathrooms of my uni. The debate that we were going to hold got cancelled since I was the only cone that came on time, which lead us to a groupwork about something else totally off-topic. Seems like finally when I am ready to come out life is somehow telling me "DON'T DO IT!!!!". pfft.
     
    #18 Quitex, May 8, 2008
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    Awww (*hug*) what awful luck! :frowning2: Don't worry, I'm sure you'll have another opportunity.
     
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    Aww, sorry to hear that! (*hug*) It's so irritating and depressing when that happens! I know how you feel. The day I went to come out to my parents the first time my brother had a car wreck (he was fine) but it basically delayed what I had been pumping myself up for all week. Just keep your chin up and your time will come. If the nerves don't get you first... :lol:
     
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