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Came out to my friends at christian camp!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Bassplayer, Jul 31, 2013.

  1. Bassplayer

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    So last week, I went to work as a camp counselor at a weeklong christian camp. I knew the people I was working with really well, but I didn't really know their views on gay people.

    A few of my closest friends worked there with me, and they were my age. Every other counselor was in their mid 20's. Anyway's I had been meaning to come out to my close friends for the whole week, and all of the counselors and I ended up sitting around the fire talking about homosexuality. As I would of guessed, the older counselors were not for it, but they also weren't against it. However, my two friends were completely supportive. I decided to tell them that I was gay, so I went up to them as we were all walking back to our respective cabins, and I tapped them on the shoulder and asked if I could tell them something. They were completely supportive, and told me that we were all like family and it didn't change a thing. I'm just glad they didn't think I was rabid, because I was mumbling incoherently and shaking like a leaf. Anyways, they were the first two people that I told in person that I'm gay, and it couldn't have gone better!
     
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    big congratulations!!! :slight_smile:
     
  3. Congratulations! What a big step for you! I am very happy that you were able to get this off your chest! And the fact that your friends accepted it means that they're true, good friends.
     
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    Good for you !!!!!!!! :slight_smile:
    Love it , congrats
     
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    Congratulations. It is a huge first step and I am so glad that it has gone well so far. I hope everything else goes as smoothly for you.

    You have 2 very close friends that you can fall back on now :wink:
     
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    Congratulations! Happy for you that it went so well, and that your friends are supportive, and that nothing has and will change! That's wonderful! :slight_smile:
     
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    congratulations dearie!! i'm glad your friends are supportive, that's how a friend ought to be!
     
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    That is awesome! I'm glad that there are some accepting Christians out there.
     
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    Inspiring! It gives me courage :slight_smile: