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Simple little coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Astaroth, May 13, 2008.

  1. Astaroth

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    I came out to a guy that I talk with online through an internet game today. I'm a hopeless flirt with straight guy friends, and he is no exception. I've never met him before (one of those internet things) and I know he's 100% straight, but it's always fun to make cute little passes at him to see what he'll do. He always plays along. And then today he sent me a private message:

    S: so...
    Me: ?
    S: you just play at being gay or are you actually gay? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    Me: I am :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Ask Din (a mutual friend who's also gay)
    S: hehe
    S: more power to ya :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    It was short, sweet, and without any drama whatsoever. I wish all coming outs were like that. Seconds later we were back to talking about normal stuff and it hasn't phased him at all. Sometimes I just wish people would shrug it off just like that. Anyway.. just felt like sharing. :lol:
     
  2. otc877

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    Glad to hear it. What game was it that you were playing? :slight_smile:

    I've thought about coming out to a group of guys that I've been playing DotA with for the past... 5-6 years? But, I don't really think my sexuality matters to people I'll never meet and that I really don't know that well (on a personal level). Besides, lots of people online are homophobic, especially in the video game world.

    Congratulations on him accepting it without any second thought. I wonder if your little flirty things are making him uncomfortable though?
     
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    I doubt it. He sent a global message of 'night lover' directed toward me before he left followed by a wink. I think it's safe to say he doesn't really care. As for the game, it's a MUD (Multi-User Dungeon), which is an old-school text-based game, called Ivalice. Based on Final Fantasy.
     
  4. Quitex

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    I love those. I am totally out and very flirty in the game I play too. People freak out sometimes XD

    Congrats!! :grin:
     
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    Congrats! What a great reaction
     
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    Well done and very spontaneous. IF ONLY all coming outs (?) were the same..
     
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    Congratz!! :grin: Wish mine could be like that...
     
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    I'm with you there! Congrats!
     
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    Congratulations! If only coming out would always be that simple and easy....
     
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    Congratulations!