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I did it!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by xballetxbeautyx, May 16, 2008.

  1. So, if anyone's read my thread in Support and Advice, you'll know that I wanted to come out to my English teacher. I got a note that morning, and she wanted me to just tell her then, but I went to her room during a study hall today with two friends for moral support, and this is how it went:

    Me: So, I kinda don't know why I want to tell you this, and it's totally random, but I started thinking about it in January and I've told some friends, but I kinda wanted to tell an adult.
    Her: Okay.
    Me: I like girls. But like, I like both. Guys and girls.
    Her: And that's completely fine.

    We just sorta talked for the rest of the period; she wanted to know if I felt better, how long I had known, who I was out to, if I had any particular girls in mind (I said no, but only because the girl was in the room...:icon_wink ).

    And then she said "You know, I knew this was what you were going to tell me. When you came to ask to talk to me this morning, I thought 'She likes girls.'" Which kinda worried me, but she said "No, you really can't tell, I just couldn't think of anything else you would be telling me."

    Sorry, this is a long post. I'm just sooo happy! :icon_bigg :icon_bigg :icon_bigg :icon_bigg :icon_bigg :icon_bigg

    You seriously have no idea how happy I am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  2. jazzrawr

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    OMG thats so great!!!!
    i remember when i told my drama teacher, who is amazing,
    she took it so well.
    thats fantastical :grin: im so happy for you!
     
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    Hi! I am so happy for you. It's great that you could trust her and confide in her. Congratulations!!! :slight_smile:
     
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    woooo I'm so happy for you... congrats!!
     
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    Thats so great, congrats!
     
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    Well done! :eusa_clap Your teacher sounds very understanding and forward-thinking. I know I had a few teachers in high school I wouldn't have every dreamed of coming out to! You're very brave.
     
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    Congratulations dear! :kiss: it's probably a great relief to you to finally have said the words :slight_smile:
     
  8. MeskElil

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    Nice! And congrats...I hate how I keep trying to come out and everyone thinks I'm joking :slight_smile: I'm glad it all worked out for you!
     
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    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride: Congratulations on Coming Out !!! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Congratz!! :grin: Wish I had an understanding teacher...
     
  11. Leigh

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    woohoo!!! im so happy it worked out!:icon_bigg
     
  12. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    That's awesome! Well done for plucking up the courage! (*hug*)
     
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    lmao, :roflmao: That is too hilarious.


    Anyways, great job!!! That's awesome.
     
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    Congrats and well done.
     
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    Congrats! thats really brave
     
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    That's wonderful, congrats! I came out to my English teacher last year. We always got along well, and he's gay. I came to his office to take a make-up test, and I was in floods of tears because of something that had happened with the girl I was into at the time. He sat me down and told me I didn't have to do the test right then, and if I wanted to talk he'd listen, so I spilled everything. He was such a great help to me, lent me books, and listened to and reassured me about everything.
     
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    congratulations, I'm glad that it all went well, and that you were able to talk to her about it.