so here's my coming out story... it wasnt the greatest i got grounded for like a week or so.... but yea my now ex-grilfriend were sitting in her room. we were hanging out in there and w.e else.. but yea eventually we were making out and her dad walked in on us we had to go out in the living room and we sat there and had to talk to her dad. i ended up having to go home we both ended up not going to the dance we were planning on going to both got ground for like a week... both of are families really didn't really aprove and still dont...but yea its definetly not a way u want to come out cuz yea my mom/family found out well some cuz of her dad told my mom and w/e else....and it was liek horrible and am still going through tough times ago its been over a year since all this has happened too. but yea it probably would have been better to tell are parents are selfs we were planning too..but we didnt know how to....and yea...but the way i ended up coming out to family really sucked. i wish i could have some how told them before all of this happened... i dont know if i covered the whole thing...but thats most of it i beleive so yea....
That's how my niece got outed too. Not a good way to come out. I would suggest that others really tell their parents before you have a relationship with someone.
umm coping better yes they have been to an extent well some.... but yea the way i see it tho is.... i just keep becoming more and more of something my family doesnt want me to be.... but the way i see it if they dont like the way i am and cant except ok w/e....yea it effects me and all...but i mean i also am kinda like w.e stuff like that.... btw thnxs for the welcome. yea i would suggest the same thing....
Ouch, rough outing. I just hope that everything goes smoothly from here on out and both of your families take it fairly well.