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Came out to best friend from childhood

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by heinrichtann, May 20, 2008.

  1. heinrichtann

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    He's one of those friends that you can't really remember meeting; he was simply there since always, since we were both kids.

    I was chatting online with him tonight, after quite some time out of touch, and he asked "what have you been up to lately." Interesting question, since I came out to myself only 3 months ago, which qualifies as "lately" :slight_smile:

    In any case, I wasn't planning to do it, but at the same time I've felt that it was wrong to keep this as a secret for him, so without too much preamble, I came out to him. He just said: "it doesn't change anything. I'm your childhood friend and I am happy for you."

    I'm happy :slight_smile:
     
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    Duuuuuude. That's awesome. xD

    Excuse the 'duuuuuuude' - I'm in a weird mood tonight.
     
  3. Defender

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    That is great! Very happy for you :grin:!
     
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    Oh, that's fantastic :grin: One of the biggest things for me was coming out to the guy who's been one of my best friends since I was about eight. He took it really well and I was grinning like an idiot for hours, becuase I was just so relieved.
     
  5. JSG

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    Congrats on Coming out !!!!!!
     
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    That's GREAT! Congrats!!!
     
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    That's great! Congratulations!!
     
  8. ccdd

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    Hey, that's brilliant! Congratulations!

    Coming out to really old friends can actually be much harder than coming out to newer ones - so congrats, and I am really glad it went well! :slight_smile:
     
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    Awesome mate! It sounds like you have a great friend there.
     
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    Congrats. It's great when it works out like that.