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My Story: A tale of fear and prejudice.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Momosboy, Aug 30, 2013.

  1. Momosboy

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    It had been nearly 9 months ago, December-January 2012. The apocalypse didn't happen... or so I thought. Momo and I, we'd literally just started dating, and I was joyful. Unfortunately, when I'm happy, oftentimes, I let my guard down, and disappointment always occurs. This time was no better.

    Momo had gone on a vacation in Florida with his family, and I was still here. No, he's not a dick! Let me explain.

    Momo lives in the States, and I in Canada. We've exchanged photos, and said lovey-dovey stuff to each other. Yes, it is a perfect relationship... Until my parents found out.

    My parents are VERY homophobic, as was I before Momo, but... they won't change. They're in the school of thought that goes, "It's in the Bible, I believe it".

    I kept it a secret for a while, but then I had my phone taken away. I texted Momo on that! My mom was the first to find out.

    My family and I had a big fight. They waxed religion all the time we fought, and also, "It's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve!".

    Now, bear with me. I love my parents, but they were wrong. So, they devised a test. However, unbeknownst to me, until nearly 4 months ago, Momo had HIS phone taken away, as well.

    My parents broke us up. It was terrible. I was miserable, once again. I couldn't understand it. Were they right? Did he really not love me?

    I hated myself. Sure, I LOOKED happy on the outside, but I wanted to die. I gave up the only person I ever truly loved. My parents had won. I would be a good boy, and be a robot, meant only to sire children with a woman, then repeat the cycle ad infinitum. That is, until May 6, 2013.

    I had been shot down by a girl yet again, and I went online to watch some reviews. On a whim, I booted up my Skype, and I saw him, my Momo. He was on today?

    Suddenly, a wave of emotion surged around me. Rage, anger, fear, love, pity, I felt it all. And then... I started to type.

    I'm sorry. It wasn't my fault.

    Long story short, we got back together, and will soon have our 4-month anniversary.

    That's my story. Fear and prejudice on one side, love and tolerance on the other. What will win in the end? My money's on love..
     
  2. Waffles

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    This sounds like something you'd watch on, like, Lifetime or the Hallmark Channel. Regardless, I'm glad to see that you and Momo have means of still continuing a relationship and hope for the best. :3

    Also, the #1 phrase I use to make people stop using the bible to judge things like this is: "Jesus didn't judge, so why should you?" That almost immediately renders them speechless. XD
     
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    You really think it's a movie? *laughs with you* Yeah, I'd watch it.
     
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    Wow, words cannot describe how speechless and pissed off I was as I read this, but I'm glad that you and Momo got back together, and I hope your relationship goes well from here on out. :slight_smile:
     
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    It has. We are so in love.
     
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    Sadly that kind of reaction is not all that uncommon among bible-thumpers, I'm glad that you were able to salvage your realtionship though, that's more than most people is similar situation's can expect.
     
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    Oh, it wasn't easy, I assure you! It was purely divine intervention, which I believe in, that caused it.