OK I came out to my cousin, because she is my only close family member and I want to have a good honest relationship with her. My parents, her parents, none of my other family knows.. So alot is resting on her being trustworthy. I trust her, but I'm still nervous because my dad is the last person I want to know and if ANYONE else in the family finds out, they will all know because of gossip / etc. Anyway, I'm so glad she knows, she was really great about it, I never doubted that she would be OK.
Great first step! Im hoping to tell my sister and bro in law before the end of this month and slowly everyone soon after. My parents probably last.