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My Friend's Weird Reaction

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by DatChickBassist, Sep 23, 2013.

  1. DatChickBassist

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    I recently told my closest friend that I was bisexual. At first he seemed okay with it and even asked did I currently have any girl crushes. I informed him that I had a crush on our mutual friend and his reaction afterwards was....weird to say the least. He said that I wasn't really bisexual and I was probably just curious. I wasn't really upset as opposed to really confused by his reaction. He seemed okay with it at first, but then he just seemed to change his opinion on it.
     
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    I don't get that either...does he maybe have a crush on this girl? : 3
     
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    I'm pretty sure he doesn't. They date our freshman year of high school but he broke up with her after a month...
     
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    I just don't get it, why would he ask if he really did not want an answer?? :/
    Maybe because it is someone he used to date it makes the coming out more "real" for him?
     
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    He may still have feelings for her. That's all I can think of.
     
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    Maybe he has a crush on a guy and he wants to think *that's* just curiosity :wink:

    Totally understand you being upset. One of my coming out fears is that people will just dismiss it and think it's a phase, but so far everyone has just taken it as a definite fact for me so hopefully you will have a better experience next time.