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Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by Rainbow Girl, Nov 25, 2013.

  1. Rainbow Girl

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    So today I came out to one of my friends who lives on my street today and it went really well, I was far less nervous than usual and she took it really well. But I noticed when I said it, it sounded kinda weird. Then later on I realized it was the first time I'd ever said "I'm gay" out loud. I thought I was bi for a long time so I'd said that, I'd written it down, said that I like girls, but I'd never actually said "I'm gay" out loud.

    Once I realized that I felt kinda awkward. I mean I'm happy but it's kinda weird to think about so because it sort of makes me nervous. Is that normal?

    Anyways this is a cool milestone.
     
  2. Gallatin

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    Yeah, a lot of people feel a bit awkward afterwards. Usually goes away shortly thereafter.

    But, congrats! Glad things went well. :slight_smile:
     
  3. Mirko

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    Well done! Glad your coming out went well and that you could say 'I'm gay' out loud. :slight_smile:

    Yep, it's totally normal. As Alex mentioned, the awkward feeling will subside.
     
  4. Yun2013

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    Congratulations Rainbow Girl. :slight_smile:

    I know how it is to admit that out loud. My coming out was recent, so the memory is very clear to me.