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How about a challenge?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by -Michael-, Jun 17, 2008.

  1. -Michael-

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    I challenge everyone on this forum :slight_smile:
    You dont tell people youre gay, if they ask, you say yes.
    Simple! No pressure really. They're the ones who should have expected a yes
    otherwise, why bother asking?
    I get asked often. let you know if im dares nough :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:



    *A NEW THOUGHT* Why be different because you're gay?
    Treat gayness as you would the the skill f beiin able to twist you tounge.
    You dont tell people you can, but when the ask, you reply :slight_smile:
     
  2. NathanHaleFan

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    Good idea unfortunately, not a lot of people ask me if I'm gay. :dry:
    However, I'm not willing to say yes to anyone, so I'd have to establish ground rules.
    1) It would have to be someone that I know wouldn't spread it to a million people.
    2) It would have to be someone that is not very homophobic (an easy box to check over here)
    3) It would have to be someone not in my Boy Scout Troop.

    Other than that, you're on!
    :eusa_clap
     
  3. Shido

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    nooot gonna happen.
     
  4. TeeJers

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    This is a good idea. I'll do it. Well I already do it. But, I'll keep on doing it.
     
  5. GunStarre

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    I already decided that after I came out to all my close friends...
    No one has asked me, except for one friend. The people I'm out to have told me that "it'd be rude to ask. Because what if you AREN'T gay? That'll just be awkward." <--- reworded 'cause I forgot how to they said it. But it's somewhere along the lines.

    That is why I have implemented an idea for the people I'm out to just tell people if anyone asks them if I'm gay. Because apparently, it's rude (seriously, I don't care. At least they're being honest with me)
     
  6. ausdtc

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    Good idea, that's something I'd actually planned to do already. In theory anyway. In practice rule 1 from NathanHaleFan's post would probably come into play, at least until my parents know. I'm prepared to deal with everyone else's reactions after that!

    The main problem here is I don't actually get asked if I'm gay ever really.. We'll see!
     
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    No one has ever asks me... Though I'd probably say yes, assuming the person had good intentions.
     
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    I'm already out to everyone!

    Unless my mom asked.

    And my sister knows, but we never talk about it.

    Hrm...

    I really hope a teacher asks me something assuming I'm straight, I've always wanted to answer gayly.

    ^_^
     
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    pfft! when ur as obvious as i am honey, the whole JAMAICA will find out my sexuality by morning.
    Just since afternoon on the taxi home the driver heard me talking to a friend in the back seat of the cab and he was like "excuse me, are u gay?" in a very deep and strong tone i just deepened up my voice and said"No..."(in base) :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    :lol:
     
  10. Cheese Love

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    My sister has asked me a few times, first "Are you bisexual?", then she dropped a million hints that she knows and recently asked me, "So what are you?"

    Next time, I promise to say yes. Good challenge.
     
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    I'll try it. As long as it doesn't get to my parents, I'm ok.
     
  12. agraves

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    I'll take the challenge. Honestly, I would have done it anyway because I'm such a horrible liar that if someone was to ask me I would get really red and stumble over my words if I tell them a lie. It's a curse.
     
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    I do it.

    I havent been, but no one has asked me anyways.... So yeah.

    I ACCEPT!
     
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    That's pretty much what I do already, but again, not many people would ever ask that, unless they are gay and have a crush on you, but then they are generally to shy...
     
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    Your ON! oh wait im already out and cover in rainbows and i always comment on how hawt guys are. Hmm Guess I lose! :grin:
     
  16. mUsIcFrEaK92

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    You on! The only ones i won't say yes to are my parents. And I'm gonna come out to a few people while i do it.
     
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    You're On!!! just so you know, NOBODY has ever asked me that:grin:, I'm very straight-acting
     
  18. ccdd

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    I've been hoping that if I do get asked by someone whether I am gay/bi, that I'd say yes. That's the theory anyway - so I accept the challenge (although if they're homophobic and/or wielding a knife or something I'll take the liberty of lying).

    I wish my parents would ask me - then I could just say yes. SO much easier.
     
  19. yahooooo

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    Haha.. I wish more people would ask.. I drop enough hints!! Actually I have come out to the ONLY person (except for my parents) who has asked directly if I'm gay. I couldn't be bothered to lie so I just nodded.

    Okay - I accept the challenge lol.. even though I pretty much decided this was what I was going to do anyway. Unfortunately my friends are all a little (understatement!!) niave... so I think if I left it only to them I will still be in the closet untill I go and do something like kiss a girl in front of them. They might just get the message then.. no promises though!!
     
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    Yet you are a Kasey Kahne fan? There's a big hint for them right there. j/k