Guys I came out to my coworker! I'm happy and also simultaniously analysing the conversation for things I did wrong that will hurt me later. Healthy right? Anyways we were talking and her mtf boyfriend came up and then we started talking about LGBTQ things and I ventured I was kinsey 4 or 5 depending on the day (really meaning mostly I like girls but there are a few guys I think I could date) and I found out that she is pan! So I'm freaking out a little and I don't know how to feel about it because it just came out of my mouth without my willing. I was like oh you dated a trans girl? Im gay. Yay anxiety. Okai bii. (!)
Thank you everyone!!! And it has been really normal since. She didn't react at all and hasn't since so I'm pretty happy. Just thought I'd update y'all