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La primera persona

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by revolutionrock, Jun 30, 2008.

  1. revolutionrock

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    Well, I finally did it.

    After months of wanting to, I did it. I'd been dropping hints for awhile, then finally my friend just asked me. I couldn't actually say "I'm gay," all I could manage was "I'm into dudes." Ha!

    But she was really good about it. I couldn't have asked for a better reaction, especially the first time around.

    I know lot of people say they feel relieved after they tell someone, but I dunno how I feel. Right after it felt like I was feeling every emotion at once... it was pretty intense. But now I dunno how I feel. Normal?

    Maybe it just takes time to sink in. I'm pretty stoked about it all though.

    :slight_smile:
     
  2. Steve

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    gratz man! thats awesume .. after i came out .. to my friend i just felt strange for a day
     
  3. revolutionrock

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    Thanks! Yeah, I definitely feel a bit out of sorts. Not in a bad way, just... different.
     
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    Sometimes it might take a few days to sink in. On the day when I came out to my counselor, I had the same feelings for a few hours. But once that passed, I started feeling relieved.

    Congratulations on coming out to your friend! :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations! It's no wonder you felt kind of strange... your first coming out is a really big step. It's pretty common to feel so many different emotions. I'm glad it went so well for you. Again, congratulations!
     
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    Haha yey you!

    I felt wierd aswell
     
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    Everybody gets different emotions after they come out, or a while after, especially the first time. Well done! It gets easier with each one :slight_smile:
     
  8. revolutionrock

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    Yeah, I'm feeling pretty good now.

    It sounds really corny, but I'm feeling happy in a way I've never felt it before. It's pretty rad. :grin:
     
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    yay! that's awesome, and a great start!